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Tuesday, 09 February 2010
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Should Every Child in the Family Receive Gifts for One Child's Birthday?
When you have more than one young child how do you do birthdays? I have seen families who give more presents to the child whose birthday it actually is but the other young children in the family will still receive gifts so that they are not upset or jealous.
Recently, I had a little cousin who had a birthday and I thought about bringing his younger sister a present too in order to avoid any jealousy that might occur. Sharing is something we are all trying to teach my little cousins but I began to think that bringing presents for everyone may not be the best idea. I mean it is one thing to share your toys with your sibling but should you have to share your birthday simply to prevent the other child from whining? More Here...
Monday, 08 February 2010
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Parents Believe in Faith Healing, Son Dies...How Far Do You Go?
An Oregon couple was convicted on criminally negligent homicide. The Oregon couple are believers in faith healing. So, when their 16 year old son developed a urinary tract infection they had prayed instead of taking their son to the doctors for modern medicine to take care of the problem.
The son had a complication, he was suffering from a serious kidney disease resulting from a constriction in his bladder that was present at birth. A catheter could have saved his life. An a side note they previously had lost their granddaughter due to pneumonia and a blood infection because their granddaughters parents had believed the same way. Here is the link to that article.
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Holding Duckie Hostage
Post from Glamorous InsanityDora the Duckie here is Little Miss Sugar’s favorite toy. She has had it since birth, and likes to play with her pretty often. She sometimes even brings Dora to the table to have lunch with her while “they” watch cartoons.
Yesterday when the living room floor looked like Hurricane Katrina ran through it, I asked the girls to clean it up. As usual, their reaction was as though they had to clean poo off the toilet.
I understand first hand how much cleaning sucks sometimes. But if I continue to clean up after them, they learn nothing, and I am a maid for the next 16 + years. Yea, that's not going to happen. More Here...
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Making Children Apologize...
Since I was a child, I have been the type of person that refuses to apologize for something if I'm not sorry that I did or said it. I'm willing to admit that I'm wrong, but I'm not going to say sorry if I'm not.
However, you see so many parents automatically do that when their child has said or done something wrong to someone else. More Here... -
Being There For Your Kids
Me and my fiance have been discussing kids lately. One of the main things we talked about is taking interest in what our future kids do.
I think it is important to be involved in my kids' lives because believe it or not, being there for them is extremely vital in their maturity process. I mean, you can help them make healthy choices about sex, school, drugs, or things of that nature. Being there also doesn't have to mean scolding them all the time. We can just listen to them and encourage them whenever they need our support.
Having said that, those tools I mentioned in my last sentence will help your kids to succeed later in life and will also show them how to lead a fruitful and happy life. I'm so glad I had a mother who was so encouraging and supportive of all the things I have done or am going to do.
Some parents may not realize this but you guys are a big influence on how your kids think and what they do. More Here...

















