Thursday, 24 January 2013
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What About the Children?
I found this post on Facebook this morning and I thought, "Hey, that's great!" I even clicked the "Like" button. I poured some coffee and sat at the table when a small voice inside my head asked, "But, what about the children?"
I finished my coffee and jumped on my laptop to find out a little more information about this new law. What I thought was such a great piece of legislation turned out to be another ill-thought out bill that when enforced, would make the children of our state, the ultimate losers.
If you take the benefits away, such as food stamps, medical coverage and shelter costs, who will feed these children, treat them when they're ill or put a roof over their heads? Once again, children will suffer because of their parent's actions. But, the legislators thought of the solution to that! They will give the benefits to a family member to be distributed to the children. In effect, our state government is putting in a middle man.
Now, this might work, I thought! But, what about children who don't have family members who can't or won't agree to take on this responsibility? What happens when these family members don't exist? Who takes care of the children? I found no answer in the law for that!
I researched more and found that this bill was being touted as a way to get people who are addicted to drugs the help they need. Wow, that's great, I thought. But, what kind of help are we talking about? The bill had been in effect for only a short time before an injunction questioning the constitutionality of the law could be considered. In the four months the law was utilized to test welfare applicants, only 108 out of 4,086 people tested positive. And the majority of these 108 only tested positive for pot. A drug that is now legal, or on the way to being legalized, by many states.
So, why are we doing this? Further reading gave me the answer. It was going to save the state a lot of money by not giving benefits to people who tested positive for drugs. Ok, I could see that as a good thing. Then I went back to researching and found some very different results. The new law was costing taxpayers much more than we would ever save by not paying out the benefits to those who tested positive. And the voice inside my head asked, "How were they going to save those benefits, if they said they would pay them to someone else to support the kids?" Now I'm confused!
I realize that the welfare system is sometimes abused by lazy, selfish people who don't care to work for a living and would rather work the system to their advantage. But, I consider myself an intelligent person who worries about the effects on our children in this state. If this law prevents even one child from getting fed properly, then I say get rid of it! If one child dies because of lack of medical treatment, I say Stop! And, if one child is left out in the rain or cold in order to save a few bucks, then I say shame on us!
So, before you start jumping up and down and praising this new law... look up the facts. I hope you'll change your mind. Please, think of the children!
You'll have to excuse me now. I have to return to Facebook and click on the "Unlike" button.
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A lot of bills that are passed are wrapped in a shiny blanket, "Look how much we are doing on the war against drugs and government funding abuse.", and very rarely thought out. It is temporary appeasement written by those who don't tend to have a grasp on the actual lives of a lot of the people that the bill affects. I think that perhaps parts of the bill should be different...why the hell does it cost so much and what method of testing will be used? It is a waste of money because people can smoke pot, flush it out of their system and test clean but let's think it through despite those issues.
However the idea, not necessarily the method, of what they're doing has my support. What if a person stops getting funding because they do drugs: do you think it is their personal responsibility, as a parent, to make sure that their child is fed or someone else? Is it anyone's fault but theirs if they continue to use drugs, even while knowing the risk of not being able to feed their family? The government is not asking them to do anything extra except to have proof that they are being honest about not using drugs.
If most of the tests came back positive for pot, then it is a non narcotic drug and (supposedly) is not addictive. Stopping does not involve inpatient therapy or any dangerous or terribly difficult side effects. This is not a tumultuous drug to stop using and just a few days of being clean can be the difference.
I don't feel as though most of those children would be going hungry either because most of the kids whose parents rely on government funding have free or $1 breakfasts and lunches at school anyway. Perhaps all the money going to relatives for food could be sent to the school cafeteria so that a student could have a meal to bring home at the end of the day too.
Also, based on your reasoning, workers shouldn't be drug tested either because if my husband were to smoke pot and fail a drug test at work, he'd probably lose his job. Then we couldn't feed our kids (we live paycheck to paycheck) and it would be his company's fault or problem and the government should then send us money to make sure our kids are okay. The very fact that he could get fired for using drugs is one of the main reasons he doesn't because he used to be a big pothead. I did too for that matter, until I had kids and stopped, so I know for a fact that those who are still smoking pot in spite of what it could mean for their family have no excuse. Where is the money for their $40 bag of weed coming from anyway? Because they should be using that for food for their family, not getting money from the government.
You have some valid points. Thank you for reading.b@DarkMeru@xanga -
I also agree with the idea behind the law. If our tax dollars are to be spent on drug users, then use it to rehabilitate them by providing the resources to get clean.
But, this law is not doing that. It is costing the taxpayers too much money to weed the small percentage of drug users out of the welfare system. I do not profess to have a better way, I just believe this law is definitely not going to help anyone. And, it will fail at a high cost to the taxpayers.
Another reason that I object to this law, is that welfare parents are once again assumed to be on drugs and misusing the funds they receive. My daughter is a Director of a Pre-school and she knows many parents who are handling their benefits in a responsible manner. As I stated in my article, there are people who are lazy, selfish people who work the system to their advantage. This law is not targeting them.
I thank you for your clear and concise comments and for reading this!
I still have more research to do, but the articles and posts that say "it will cost more than it will save" keep referring to it as "this law."
That's why I have a problem. It's not "this law," but "those laws." Each state wrote their own law. Each state will administer it differently. While they may be similar, they certainly are going to be different. That's why I can't lend much credence when folks say "this law will cost more than it will save."
I live in Florida. The statistics I quoted were from the short period of time that this law was enforced in this state. I have not found results from Kentucky and Missouri. And, I am sure other states may be considering a modified law to be introduced into legislature. The law I speak of is the one that was passed in Florida and found to be costly and ineffective. I can only speak as a Floridian. Sorry for the confusion!@grim_truth@xanga -
I think testing positive for pot should (in states where it's illegal), mean you don't get welfare. If I test positive for pot at my job, I get fired and I get no money. Why should welfare recipients get money for doing the same things that get workers fired for? I think it's very hypocritical to tell workers they can lose their income for pot, but that welfare recipients can smoke pot, not go to work and still be secure in the knowledge that they won't lose their house or starve.
If parents want to look after their children and ensure they get food and shelter, they should give enough of a shit to give up pot. It's not physically addicting and if they really cared about their kids, they'd pick recieving welfare (or getting a job - heaven forbid!) over pot. End of story. If they don't care enough to do that, they probably shouldn't be looking after children.
@crankycaregiver@xanga - well, that's the problem. In the articles I found, currently, Florida is at a net loss of $45,000. But from what I read, that didn't take into account the amounts that would not get paid out over the next year. Only counted what the tests cost and what had been saved up to this point.
More long term studies need to be conducted over time to really get a good picture of what it saves and accomplishes. (One statistic that will never be discovered is how many people quit drugs to get their money. If one person did, then the $45,000 was worth it, IMO)
The whole "if we can save ONE child" argument is pointless. If that were true, we'd outlaw the AUTOMOBILE. Save a lot of children's lives by doing that.
As far as the specific law goes, 108 / 4000 doesn't seem like very many. However, how many people simply did not go get tested because they knew they would be tested positive? That's a much harder number to calculate, but is also welfare benefits that aren't paid out to drug users. I'm also not a fan of the "its only pot" argument. Violation of a law should not be encouraged, and recreational use of marijuana is still illegal in all 50 states, because the federal law declaring it so supercedes the ballot initiatives in Colorado and Washington. Let's never encourage federal crime, especially when discussing children.
I like the concept of the law, but I do agree the implementation could be streamlined to be more cost-effective, and that there should be some partnering with foster services and the like for children who are destitute and do not get welfare benefits because of their parent's drug habits. Let's work on a solution to find those children, get them in positive situations away from drug users, and have a chance at a life. And if we are saving money from the welfare bill [it is always hard to tell... one side always says we saved money, while the other one says we didn't], then I think it is reasonable to propose spending that savings on programs designed to help children.
Since people keep mentioning being drug tested by employers, I know that most employers do not fire an employee for testing positive the first time. They are offered drug counseling and future testing in order to keep their job.
I am not condoning parents who drink, smoke pot or do other drugs that use money that is meant to support their children. What I am against is grouping everyone who collects welfare benefits being labeled as druggies, lazy and negligent in the care of their children. The majority of parents with children use the money wisely...there will always be those that don't.
All I am saying is that this law is not what it is cracked up to be!
One point I am going to make about the few that have mentioned "taking the children away" if a parent is tested positive. They feel that is better for the children. So if a parent has a drink (which is also a drug), should we remove the children from the home, whether the parents are on welfare or not? What happens when a parent is on medication and receives a false/positive result? Or, should we find out if the children are being properly cared for before we yank them away and cause them trauma? Once again, welfare recipients are labeled as second-class citizens because they need help supporting their family!
But, that's my opinion, and you are certainly entitled to yours. Thanks for reading!
They are getting free money so I think it's fair to ask this small little thing- do t do drugs if you want money handed to you. A lot of welfare abuse comes from people that work off the books and collect anyways. It's the government's money and they are in a money crunch so the fact that a welfare system is actually still in tact surprises me.
Funny... I just wrote a blog about this no less than three hours ago. I think that something needs to be done, but drug testing every single person is not the answer. Not exactly for the easily offended...
@shezadey@xanga - While testing for drugs on every person is ideal. It would cost more to test everybody than we would save by weeding out the junkies from the needy.
If they cared so much about drug addiction, they would fund treatment centers. Like all zero-tolerance policies, this is only a means to appear as if they are doing something. And like the rest of the "war on drugs" this is a waste of money. The expense of implementing the testing exceeds the savings of kicking this tiny handful of people off welfare.
@crankycaregiver@xanga - "Since people keep mentioning being drug tested by employers, I know that most employers do not fire an employee for testing positive the first time. They are offered drug counseling and future testing in order to keep their job."
Sorry, what? I don't know ANY employer that will give you a second chance. People who are drugs tested are generally minimum/low wage employees who are very expendable. If I tested positive for drugs tomorrow at work, I would get fired, no second chance.
The difference between pot and alcohol (in most states) is that pot is illegal. Yes, I personally believe alcohol is worse, but you have to follow the law here. Having one "rule" for workers and one rule for the unemployed smacks of hypocrisy, and basically says that if you're not working, it's totally okay to break the law because "it's only pot". I don't want my taxes to fund pot smokers when I, as a worker, would lose my job if I was to smoke it.
That's a much harder number to calculate,
but is also welfare benefits that aren't paid out to drug users. I'm
also not a fan of the "its only pot" argument. Violation of a law
should not be encouraged, and recreational use of marijuana is still
illegal in all 50 states, because the federal law declaring it so
supercedes the ballot initiatives in Colorado and Washington.
I see no Constitutional problem with this, but you have to remember, there are thousands out there who qualify for free medications for real disorders from the pharm companies, and some of these meds are strong enough to skew the results of drug testing, so on the one hand I say, good for you, go ahead, get these poor people and make them prove they need the help. And on the other hand, as one who has 3 rather severe autoimmune disorders that are covered by Medicare, I take between 6 and 13 medications per day. So I might be disallowed food stamps or something else provided if drug testing were required. Does anyone get what I'm saying here? And will they accept someone's card for medicinal marijuana? My brother-in-law has had leukemia for a year now, and the only thing that deals with the pain is one itty bitty marijuana brownie for breakfast, in California. This, after being on morphine and everything else. So, were he unable to pay his bills, would this cause him to be homeless, or not get food stamps? So many conservatives without health problems like to stamp it all with the same stamp, but the problems of people are quite varied.
How about- if you do not earn money, you do not get money unless someone freely gives it to you. And how about we let people abuse their bodies in whatever way they please.
People do not need to be micro-managed in this way, even if they are out of work, even if they like drugs- it's their life, not anyone else's.@DarkMeru@xanga - "I think they deserve better parents who actually care about making sure they have health coverage and food in their bellies, that's your job when you decide to have a baby."
This statement is nullified by the fact that you are irritated you make twenty dollars too much to qualify for assistance. Why would you even know that (or be irritated by your lack of qualification) unless you applied or looked into the requirements because you felt you needed it? It screams that you are just pissed that you cannot get assistance.
If they are doing drugs, but can't afford food, chances are they will sell the foodstamps for drug and the kids will get no food anyway.
Happens in NY every day.
I agree with much of what was said above, and will keep my thoughts to myself regarding the actual bill/law to avoid being repetitive. There were also multiple things in the comments above that were offensive to me. Snap judgements and assumptions were made, and to be honest, those words were hurtful. What I do want to talk about is my own personal experiences with the system because I truly feel people who have never had to utilize these social programs can be very biased and judgemental. They lump all people receiving government assistance into one category: lazy. If I had a dollar for every time I've been personally victimized for my need for government programs during the course of the last 6 years, I'd be as rich as the politicians who write these flawed bills.
I got pregnant at 18, my boyfriend skipped out on me, and I had to quit my job 2 months after discovering I was pregnant because the physical strain my job placed on me was a risk to my unborn child's life. Does anyone know how hard it is for a pregnant woman to find a job? I do. Nobody wants to hire you unless you have some sort of connection through a family member or friend. I don't blame employers for choosing not to hire pregnant women. I get that it's a liability for them. Doctor's appointments, maternity leave, bed rest... whatever. They're not discriminating, per se, they just don't call you for an interview. I lived at home with my parents during my pregnancy, and for the first year and a half of my daughter's life. I'd been working since I was 16, and had about $3,000 saved up when I had to quit my job. That 3k went quick! Baby gear is expensive! I wanted to give my child up for adoption, but my parents said they'd provide us with what we needed so I wouldn't have to. They put a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs, a vehicle to use, and provided me with the money to further my education which would ultimately benefit my daughter and I in the long run. But, they wouldn't let me get a job to financially support myself and my child. Why? Because they didn't want to bear the burden of caring for my daughter while I earned an income. Single mom with no decent job experience or education, how could I possibly afford daycare? At that point, I was trapped. Should I have just given my child up then?.... My child needed health insurance, and since my parents couldn't add her to their's, I qualified for medicaid due to lack of income (which I acquired while still pregnant and my daughter benefited from this insurance until I got married and my hubby was able to add her and I to his insurance). I also qualified for WIC. I did not, however, qualify for cash assistance or food stamps, and only found out about that because some woman at Workforce Services told me I didn't. I wasn't applying for or even inquiring about those services. My father made too much money, and even though I'm sure I could have easily cheated the system, I was morally against lying about my father's income seeing as how I was benefiting from it. Every time I used my WIC checks, the people behind me in line would shake their heads, flash me dirty looks, and sometimes, they'd say mean things to me. They had no idea I was on WIC because my dad was still supporting his family of 6, paying bills, and providing my daughter with everything else she needed like diapers and clothing and toys. Was I lazy for getting WIC? I don't think so.
My husband was employed during our first 2 and a half years of marriage through the same company. However, his income was not enough to fully support us, and after struggling to pay all our bills and feed the three of us (I was working too until I fell down on the stairs at our apartment and threw out my back. I was laid up for a week and had a doctor's note, but the company I worked for fired me). I was also pregnant. Not that I feel I need to justify myself, but because I think someone may ask me: Yes, we were using protection. My son is living proof that preventative measures do not always work! We qualified for food stamps, and were so grateful. My husband worked, I stayed home with the kids. Daycare for 2 kids, especially for ones so young, would have been astronomically expensive. No way could we pay for that if we both worked! Then, when our son was 5 months old, another unplanned pregnancy. Although I'm sure with our family size and income, we would have qualified for more than just food stamps, but that was the only program we were on. We paid our rent. We paid for our car and insurance, we paid for our basic cell phones, we paid our utilities, we bought our children everything they needed. But, we couldn't pay for all of those things and feed our family too. Something had to give, right? We did not have internet. We did not have cable. We did not go on vacations or buy extravagant things. We lived paycheck to paycheck.
My husband was laid off from his job in May 2011. We qualified for unemployment benefits, our food stamp allowance was increased, and the kids qualified for medicaid. He worked a few odd jobs here and there, and luckily, we were able to receive help through our church with bills that minimum wage paychecks just couldn't cover. We still do not have internet (our neighbors are fantastic, and have been generous enough to allow us to use their wifi for free, bless their hearts). We still do not have cable. We still use basic cell phones with no internet. We still do not take vacations or buy extravagant things. Now, my husband is starting a job with USPS on Monday, and the hourly rate is significantly greater than what he was making before he got laid off nearly 2 years ago. We'll be off food stamps. We won't qualify for government assistance of any kind, and I cannot even begin to describe how relieved and happy we are to know we'll be financially independent. We are not lazy. We are not druggies. We are not low, rotten, dirty people. We fell on hard times, and thank God for the social programs because there are people out there who are needy. Not everyone wants to cheat and/or take the easy road. There are those of us out there who want to help ourselves, but require outside assistance in order to rise up and be self sufficient. So, before passing judgement, please try to remember that assumptions and blanket statements are hurtful.
Lmao at the person who thinks there's a SMALL percentage of drug users on welfare!! That was a good one!!
Thank you for your story. You are the reason I am against this law...it once again singles out people on welfare and classifies them as possible drug addicts. My heart goes out to you and just know that you are a good person...do not listen to others.
My best wishes to you and your family! May only good things come your way now, you have certainly been through enough bad ones.@rachmorgan01 -
@Pollypinks@xanga - i'm sure if someone were on a prescription medication and had to take a drug test they would let the testing facility know they were taking medication, and also have medical records to back them up if it became an issue. medications that are prescribed to a person are completely different then doing drugs for fun.
@rachmorgan01 - I am glad you were able to write your story because I wasn't able to without breaking down into tears at the computer thinking about some of the judgmental things my own relatives have posted on facebook not knowing we are on foodstamps. Why people seem to think being on government assistance is easy and enabling has clearly never had to deal with it before.
What about the children my ass. I'm sorry, but as the offspring of an addict (and someone who has met other addicts), I know for a fact that the children of addicts are not getting fed regardless of whether their "parents" get food stamps. All food stamps does for an addict is provide more funding for addictions, and at the tax payer's expense. Actually, many addicts have kids for the sole purpose of leeching off the system. Even among welfare recipients who aren't addicts, many are just lazy and/or make numerous stupid decisions.