Tuesday, 18 September 2012
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My Birth Control Story

It all started when I was a sophomore in college. I was taking accutane (an acne medication) which is very strong and can cause severe birth defects. Even though I wasn't sexually active, it was policy that I had to take birth control pills (or at least the prescription for them) in order to take accutane. Since the pill also clears skin, I decided to start taking it. I was on the pill for the 6 months that I was on accutane, then stopped.In May 2005, I met my husband and we started dating. I went on the pill again. For the first 3 months I had break-through bleeding and I remember being mortified waking up next to my boyfriend in a puddle of blood. After some trial and error, I finally I found a pill that worked. I was never the best at taking them faithfully, and there were days I would miss and have to make up, but during our 2 years of dating and first year of marriage we never had a scare.
In August 2009 we purchased our first house! During the move I misplaced a few packs of pills. I decided to find a new Ob/Gyn in the area, but I could not get an appointment until February. I ran out of birth control at the end of September, and we decided that until my appointment in February, we would try to conceive. October 2009 was the first month in years that I had not taken birth control pills, and I didn't realize how crappy they had made me feel. Suddenly, I felt wonderful and noticed a huge increase in my libido!
The end of November came and went without a period, and it wasn't until December 11th (I was a little in denial) that I finally broke down and bought a hpt, POSITIVE. Joey was born on August 5, 2010!
After his birth, I went on the mini-pill. By January I was ready to be done breastfeeding, and at the end of January my period came back. I went to the doctor mid-February and got a new prescription for the regular combination pill. March came but my period hadn't returned. And the hpt said POSITIVE. The mini-pill had not worked and we were pregnant. Unfortunately and sadly that pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. I had a D&C in April. By the end of May my period came back, and again, I started taking birth control pills.But the pill for me was awful. Two weeks in, I bled for a week and again at the end of the month as expected. The same thing happened in July, so when I started bleeding in the middle of July, I stopped the pill. And in the middle of August I was pregnant with Bode.
After Bode was born my plan was to have the Mirena IUD inserted. We weren't going to try for baby number 3 for a while. As written in my previous post (about my premature Bode), my IUD went completely through my uterus and had to be surgically removed. After that, I went on the mini-pill. I stopped pumping breast milk at the end of May, so in the beginning of June I started Ortho Lo. And of course I was miserable again. By mid-June I started bleeding, end of June period. July same as June, possibly because I missed 2 days of pills which can cause breakthrough bleeding. In August I missed no pills so it was a good month. In September, I missed ONE day and made up for it the next day but was already bleeding, WTF. I am still bleeding and miserable, so I told my husband I am done with this pill until I go for my yearly in October.
Now my decision is to try a different pill or try Nuva Ring, any suggestions? I refuse to get the shot, I know way too many people that gained weight like crazy on it and then could not get the weight back off. I think I'm either going to do Ortho (regular) or Nuva Ring, but would love insight.
I realize that every woman has a distinct and personal story when it comes to birth control. I also know that as a woman the pioneers behind birth control should be given much appreciation. They paved the way for the numerous options that I/we enjoy today!
A brief history....
1550 B.C. An Egyptian manuscript called the Ebers Papyrus directs women on how to mix dates, acacia and honey into a paste, smear it over wool and use it as a pessary to prevent conception
1700s Casanova's memoirs detail his experiments in birth control, from sheep-bladder condoms to the use of half a lemon as a makeshift cervical cap
1839 Charles Goodyear invents the technology to vulcanize rubber and puts it to use manufacturing rubber condoms, intrauterine devices, douching syringes and "womb veils"
1873 Congress passes an antiobscenity law that deems birth control info obscene and outlaws its dissemination. At the time, the U.S. is the only Western nation to criminalize contraception
1880s A large cervical cap is developed--an early version of the diaphragm
1916 Margaret Sanger opens America's first family-planning clinic, in Brooklyn. It is shut down within 10 days
1921 Sanger founds the American Birth Control League, which later becomes the Planned Parenthood Federation of America
1930 Anglican bishops approve limited use of birth control; Pope Pius XI affirms church teaching against contraception
1938 A judge lifts the federal obscenity ban on birth control, but contraception remains illegal in most states
1951 Prompted by Sanger, Gregory Pincus begins research on the use of hormones in contraception. In Mexico City, chemist Carl Djerassi creates a progesterone pill
1954 John Rock, below, in collaboration with Pincus, bottom, conducts the first human Pill trial on 50 women in Massachusetts
1960 In May, the FDA announces its approval of Enovid as a birth control pill (almost half a million American women are already taking it for "therapeutic purposes")
1965 In Griswold v. Connecticut, the Supreme Court strikes down state laws prohibiting contraception for married couples; 6.5 million American women are on the Pill
1970 Concerns about the Pill's safety and side effects prompt Senate hearings
1980s Lower-dose Pills dominate the market; 10.5 million American women are taking the Pill
2010 A new study of 46,000 women conducted over 40 years found that women on the Pill live longer and are less likely to die prematurely of all causes, including cancer and heart disease. Some 100 million women around the world use the Pill
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Comments (32)
Fantastic birth control story... and timeline
Let's hope we can continue to be able to control our reproductive choices well into the future! Be active and always be informed.
Thanks for posting!
Also, personally, I've heard that the female condom is a great birth control device. It is proven to protect against disease as well as pregnancy... and there are no hormonal side effects!
On the minus side it's a little expensive (more expensive than the traditional male condom) and a little "messy" for some people. Use your own judgement
There's also the good, old-fashioned diaphragm. Again, less of a chance of chemical side-effects.
I need birth control to regulate my period. I've been on the nuva ring for over a year. I love not having to remember to take a pill everyday. In the end the decision is up to you.
You could also look into natural planning, which involves knowing your cycle and the signs of ovulation. After three kids I told my husband I wasn't going back on birth control because it makes me crazy. So far I've been off of bc for at least 4 months and we've been fine, not even a scare. It helps to have an ovulation calender app on your phone too, so you don't have to do the math yourself.
Even if you don't end up using natural family planning, it's always good to get to know your body better anyways, so you should look into it. It's getting to the point where I don't even have to count anymore because I'm becoming familiar with the signs of fertility, and if I'm ever unsure we just use a condom. :)I was on the pill for years until I got married. I tried to get on it again after I had my daughter but it made me sick and I just felt yucky. I have just been using condoms since then, especially because we knew we wanted another baby not too long after the first. Like someone else said, you can use natural planning. Of course it is not as effective as the pill or condoms or other forms of birth control. But if you're like me and you are kind of like "whatever happens, happens" then it might be worth a shot.
What about the patch? I used that for about 3 years with pretty minimal side effects/mess ups. Its a weekly thing, so just pick a day of the week to start/change your patch. I usually did it after i got out of the shower and was dried off. the only downside is that there is only one dose, so if you need lower hormones this may not be a good option.
I am currently using the copper IUD and haven't had too much negative. The biggest complaint is much more cramps and much more blood.
Hope you find something that works!
I refuse to use any hormonal birth control ever, even with my crazy irregular cycles. I'll live with my cycles and use condoms when necessary. It's worked fine for me for more than half a decade.
NUVARING IS THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME. But seriously. Every single pill I've ever tried made me feel moody, lethargic, and terrible. Nuvaring worked great, until my insurance stopped covering brand name drugs worth a damn. It was extremely easy, painless (you could never even feel it), and effective.
I recommend the implant. I personally don't have it, but i plan on getting it as soon as i can after having my second child. I gained crazy amounts of weight when i was on the pill, and didn't like the idea of anything going in my cervix - so i figured i'd give the implant a go. My sister just got it and loves it. You have some spotting and sporadic periods for the first few months of having it, then most women stop getting their period all together. It lasts 3 years and has the least amount of side effects out of all the birth control. I know a few people who have had it for years and they all recommend it.
I've been on Lorestrin 24 Fe for 3 years. I don't experience any side effects other than the first 3 months of taking it (mood swings only for me). It is low dose and has 24 hormone pills and 4 placebo pills. I usually get 2 days of period every 28 days, sometimes I skipped some, but that's normal for this pill. I always take the pill the same time everyday to keep the hormone level consistent. My phone has an alarm that will remind me whenever it's time to take it.
You didn't mention the shots. Go in once every 3 months. Easy peasy. As far as natural planning, many women ovulate more than once a month, and their bodies don't always have the same reaction, hence, large families for some religious groups that ban birth control. You didn't say how many kids you wanted, but you could try a diaphragm, along with a spermacide, and after you are done with reproducing hubs could get a vasectomy. All the men in my family have had them.
@Pollypinks@xanga - She said she doesn't want the shots because of close personal stories of problematic weight gain.
The shot is terrible, at least for me. THIRTY pounds heavier, I have no sex drive with the man I've been with for two years, and I bleed a lot more often. But I've never tried any pills, but I was planning on switching. I'm nervous though. I know that I will feel a lot better once the Depo shot is out of my system, but after that, I'm not sure I will want to go on anything. I don't want to feel the same way.
Lol, Margaret Sanger. Such a hero for women.
I hate hormonal birth control. I've had terrible experiences with it. When I first started taking birth control, everything was fine. The effects were very gradual, so it took me a long time to really pinpoint that it was bad for me. Plus you've got every medical professional ever, media outlet, television shows, etc, telling you that hormonal birth control is the most natural and safest thing you can do for your body. The non-hormonal IUD was incredibly painful and I had it removed after less than a year. Best choices for me: NFP and lambskin condoms.I'm actually kind of nervous to go on birth control. I just got engaged and am looking for a Gynecologist in my area since I've never been to one. And my fiance and I have been researching Birth Control for a while now, and I still don't know what I'm going to do. We have some specific views on birth control and we want to make sure we find one that is non-abortive, because we believe that life begins at conception, so once that egg is fertilized anything that is done to kill that egg is considered abortive. I'm just hoping that we can find the right one...
@xhalesx@revelife - From what I know of hormonal birth control, progestin only pills make the uterine lining unfriendly for the implantation of a fertilized egg, it also thickens cervical mucus which can prevent fertilization. However, it does not prevent/suppress ovulation. (I didn't know that when I was on progestin-only - the mini pill - when I was on it for a few months, and I also only had a period once every 3 months which didn't seem good.) If it doesn't prevent ovulation, I can see having moral objection. There is the possibility that an egg could become fertilized and then have no where to go.
Combination pills include estrogen as well as progestin. The estrogen suppresses ovulation. And if you take it on time every day as directed, an egg will not become fertilized. In that case, it cannot be considered an abortive, because conception was prevented. There was no fertilized egg.
Just some information I wish someone had told me.
@sarahsmurfette@xanga - Thanks for that information! I'm definitely glad you shared that with me. My sister just got married and she said that her gyno was really good, so I'll probably end up going there. Thanks again for the information!
I started the NuvaRing at the beginning of the summer (before that, I had taken the pill for over three years), and I LOVE it!!! It is so great and convenient. It's just like the pill, except you don't have to worry about taking it every day. Totally recommend it!
@xhalesx@revelife -Decide if you are comfortable with a male or female gyno. All of your questions can be addressed with your doctor. What's right for one woman may not be right for the next. Some people have very strong opinions about how religion plays a part in a woman's decision concerning her body, and some people don't have those issues. You just get better information with a good relationship with your doctor. When I was young, before my hysterectomy, I used the pill and the IUD, with good results.
@Pollypinks@xanga - Yea. I'm going to go to a female. I don't feel comfortable with a guy looking down there unless he's my husband. I've already made that decision. And I do realize that people have differing opinions. I'm a Christian, so I get that. Most of my opinions go against most peoples'. lol
I switched to the shot last spring because I was horrible at remembering to take the pill at the same time every day. Didn't have any weight-gain issues, but I think I'm gonna give the pill another shot anyways once my current Depo shot wears off. It was great at first, but I've had daily breakthrough bleeding for over two months now, and I REALLY don't want to deal with this indefinitely.
Ortho Tri-Cyclen worked great for me though...I just had to set an alarm for myself all the time so I'd remember to take it!
I was on the pill with my daughter.. and after taking some antibiotics.. I got pregnant!
I had Josephine in February.. and I have been on an IUD ever since. So far I've had great results with this (paraguard) and it lasts for ten years!!! It's a copper IUD, so it's good for a while.@Morbid_Whisper660@xanga - I have the implant. I got it last November and at first I loved it. I got my period every other month and it lasted a week. Now I get my period every other month and it lasts for a whole month. Now I hate it and I want to get something else but I'm not too sure about what to get considering I'm too forgetful for the pill. Lol. Ohh well, just thought I'd give you another opinion on it. :)