My child/children and those in my care will always know that they are loved, and that they are blessings. Each of them are fearfully and wonderfully made, and they are incredible. And even when I hear "I hate you mommy!" I will hug them close and remind them that I love them always. And that Jesus loves them more.
Oh brother. If you think you're gonna be perfect mom, I'm already laughing out loud. I always told mine they could come to me and tell me anything, and I wouldn't get upset. HAH!! They are in their 30's, and the crap I've had to hear over the years!