Saturday, 02 April 2011

  • Tired Of Being Sick


    I recently started working at a day care again for the first time in half a year. 

    I love to work with kids, but I swear, I am so sick of being sick!!!!

    I just started three weeks ago and already I have had pink eye, bronchitis, sinusitis, and now the flu.  I have had to call in sick three times and I HATE it!  I feel like not only does it make me seem like I am lazy, but I hate having to go to the doctor.

    I mean, honestly, the place isn't as clean as it should be to begin with.  They are supposed to bleach and stuff but they only do that every so often instead of every day.  Not to mention the fact that parents bring their sick kids to day care all the time.  Seriously?

    The best part is when they KNOW they're sick and send them anyway.  They just give them some Tylenol in the morning and hope that the fever doesn't come back.  Guess what?  After nap time, the meds have worn off and you will have to take off work to come get your kid anyway.  Not to mention, if they have certain conditions, they are supposed to stay home for 24 hours anyway, not that many day care centers actually enforce that rule, but still. 

    I know my immune system is weak, but this is getting ridiculous. I was still on antibiotics from my bronchitis and still ended up with a fever of 103! I even came in so I wouldn't HAVE to call in sick today.  I wasn't feeling well at all, nauseous, shaking, and I still went in.

    For some reason they didn't tell me I had to be in at 10:30 instead of 10, so I sat in the break room after dropping my son off in his class.  A coworker happened to walk in and see me shaking, ran to get the thermometer, and took my temp. Needless to say, they told me to go home. I went to the ER, and had my mom pick my son up. 

    I spent 5 hours in the ER (which is good), with an IV in my arm, and when they told me I had the flu and dehydration, they told me to take today and tomorrow off.  SO I called my job and they gave me an attitude, which didn't help my overall disposition. I mean, it's not like I just called and said I can't come because I don't feel like it. I have the flu.

    Trust me when I say, I don't like being sick.  I hate it.  I feel icky and useless. However, I laughed when the doctor said, "Get plenty of rest" because I am a working mom.

    Oh yeah, and did I mention that my boyfriend, son and I all got sick last Tuesday? That was fun. We basically took turns at the hospital.  And nursing a man-cold is much more frustrating than nursing a baby cold. 

    Unfortunately, it's an occupational hazard that I am very aware of, but it is still frustrating. Sigh. It'd be nice to be able to take a day off from everything and just get some true rest, but like the saying goes, a mother's work is never done.

    Do you hate being sick? Do you let yourself rest when you're sick or do you just keep going? 

Comments (6)

  • bmillerssailor@xanga

    Ugh, this is why I don't work at daycare centers now. I was constantly sick and in order to NOT get fired because of taking too many days off, I had suffer through it. Which is NOT ideal when you're in a classroom full of one and two year olds. It's the like cold never ends, it just cycled through.

    And nursing a man cold is WAY harder than nursing a baby cold!! (rolls eyes)

  • starcrossedloversdivine@xanga

    Look up some OSHA and FMLA stuff, get on their ass about occupational hazards and sick time. Also, bring antibacterial handrub, wipes to work. If you have free time, ask if you can clean off the tables and doorknobs with an alcohol or bleach solution. It may not be your responsibility to clean up, but I would take it into my own hands in this case.

  • mevlink@xanga

    My mother-in-law is a parapro working with some special needs kids at the local public school, and I swear she is ALWAYS sick just like you. I feel so bad! But those kids especially just slobber all over her (and bite her and wipe poop on the walls, etc etc) so no matter how often she washes her hands or tries to keep her distance, she just doesn't stand a chance at not catching their colds/illnesses. And their parents send them to school anyway because they don't want to deal with their "challenging" kids. 


    I am totally the opposite with my daughter. She had a fever not that long ago and my hubby just passed it off as teething, but I didn't care. Fever = STAY HOME. Well, it turns out he was right, she was getting her two year molars, but I would still rather be safe than sorry. It's just not worth it!
  • thesexydevilgirl@xanga
  • nov_way@xanga
  • ThaPlatinumOne@xanga

    @starcrossedloversdivine@xanga - I will have to look up that OSHA stuff.  I have, however, taken initiative to clean.  One of my coworkers actually said I was crazy for wiping down the chairs and tables and stuff on Friday with a bleach-water towel.  It's sad because I know the state has a LOT of regulations about cleanliness and this place only follows them when the inspectors come in.  SMH

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