Tuesday, 22 March 2011

  • Nickel and Dimed by Daycare


    I should really just drop out of school!

    We kept the girls home over Spring Break specifically to save money on our daycare bill. I lost so much homework time, but I figured it was worth it. But no. They are still charging us for that week. What is up with that?! 

    They used to have a week of every semester that you could keep your kids home, and it was a considered vacation and they didn't charge your for it. But they got rid of that, so now they are charging us for Spring Break anyway.

    I should have more work done on my thesis. I have a meeting with my director today, and I have practically nothing done. All because the girls stayed home over Spring Break. Why do I even try?

    PS. Guess what our daycare bill is this month. Just guess. $1000. A thousand dollars! Guess how much I make a month. $300. School is a worthless money pit.

    What do you do to offset daycare costs?  Can you recommend any alternatives for this situation?

Comments (17)

  • babixk1umzy@xanga

    I won't be able to offer much advice but is there any way a family member could watch the girls some days out of the week so they don't have to be in daycare for the full week? Or will they still charge you anyway for a full week?

  • yourkbear@xanga

    @babixk1umzy@xanga - There is a minimum number of hours (actually, it's a minimum amount to pay, and the hourly charge varies depending on if both parents attend the university or if it's a single parent family). They also require that you pay for blocks of time: 7:30-8:30, 8:30-12:30, 12:30-4:30, and 4:30-5:30. Since we need daycare to start at 11:00, we actually have to pay for it starting at 8:30. We already cut out Mondays and half of Fridays. All of our family living in town is either in school or at work most of the times when we need daycare; my sister used to watch them for us. Next semester, Jason plans to change his schedule so that we don't need daycare anymore, and it looks like I will only have class one day a week. 

  • bmillerssailor@xanga

    Daycares are definitely a rip off.

  • sarahsmurfette@xanga

    My daughter was in daycare for 2 months when she was an infant. It was $180/5 days, whether you had them there for one day or 5 a week. We only had here there until we could find other arrangements. We, too, we nickle and dimed by daycare. Yep.
    She also got the worst diaper rash ever, I'm sure they weren't changing her diaper every hour like they swore they were. This was a very highly rated daycare where I lived at the time, too.

  • tuffluffin@xanga

    Have you tried DES approved daycare? Or perhaps you can switch off with other parents depending on work schedules?

    Here in AZ we have a program called LEAP and its based off the free/reduced lunch prices its charged per hour. its like $2.70 and hour

  • LadyGwenivere@xanga

    why not try a nanny or a sitter to come to your home? or an in-home daycare?
    Our monkey goes 3 days a week, but they charge by the day, or he can even go half days.. .

  • ErinneC@xanga

    Did you have a contract that said you had the one week a semester of vacation? I can understand why the daycare needs to charge for days that you're not there (they are still holding the spot for you and can't take another child to recoup the lost wages, and they still have all the same expenses), but if your contract said that you get the week off, then you should really push for it. 

  • christygraves@xanga

    Actually, I've found really great sitters on Craigslist.  I know a lot of people may think that's scary, but I did do interviews and got recommendations and stuff.  We've had a great experience and it's easier to find some flexibility.  Maybe you can find someone who is a stay-at-home mom who wants to make a few extra bucks a week.  Good luck!

  • snarkius@xanga

    This is why I only go to school part-time and arrange it so my husband can watch the children.

  • yourkbear@xanga

    @ErinneC@xanga - No, the contract didn't say it. My problem is that, when we told the daycare (the UNIVERSITY daycare) that the girls wouldn't be there for spring break, they didn't mention that the policy had changed and we'd have to pay for it. I would have been fine sending them and paying for it if they had told us. It seems to me that if the daycare is closed on school holidays, then they shouldn't be surprised that parents would assume they don't have to pay for spring break, since the daycare is owned and run by the university.

  • mydearparker@xanga

    No way. This is why I am a stay at home mom. Even with my degree, the only job I'd be able to get would not pay enough to off set the cost of daycare.


    I am sorry for this... I would have went in there mad as hell if that happened to me. I worked at a daycare and it was disgusting to me to see them treat the kids as dollar signs and nothing more. I actually got in trouble for telling a mother her son wasn't feeling well when she called to check up on him because she ended up getting him early.

  • yourkbear@xanga

    @mydearparker@xanga - That's so weird. The daycares we've had have always seemed super eager to send our girls home if they are the slightest big sick. I can't tell you how many times the previous daycare called me saying, "One of your kids has a runny nose. Come get her." But they still charged us for the whole day, so I guess that's one big difference.

  • spicygingerxo@xanga

    i love my daycare.. minus two things.. one: they are expensive. two: they send her home over a upset stomach!!

    okay my daughter has a super super sensitive stomach, she RARELY has normal bms. soo i CONSTANTLY get called. i'm currently looking for another, i cant handle this, they say regulations say they HAVE to send her home, but in my town i didnt have this problem. so i'm re-evaluating things. 
  • careegroup@xanga

    Have you tried in-home daycare? I have part time day care (three days a week) for 470.00 a month for my one child. It's nice because he is played with and given great attention (and also does things like grocery shopping with the lady who babysits him, which is fine by me because those are things I would also do with him at home). Plus, with in-home daycare you can often find someone who will even be willing to be paid weekly instead of monthly and maybe work with you. Although, my daycare also charges us full price for months when there is spring break (boo) but I totally understand the reasoning.

  • ichirukilove

    O_O This makes me scared to even think of putting my daughter in the university's daycare. Though I'll have to do more research before making any decisions. 

    Best of luck, I hope you can find a better alternative!
  • sastsuki@xanga

    i find this rather funny cause i work at a day care. i know its pretty expensive where i work. i would try a babysitter or close friend or relative?

  • WaitingToShrug@xanga

    My recommendation would be to stay home with the children until they are in school.

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