Wednesday, 17 March 2010
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Teaching 5 Year Olds About AIDS
Yesterday I got a letter that was sent home from the principal of Little Miss Spice’s school.
In the letter, it informed me that they were planning to teach my child about the HIV/AIDS virus.
In it, it said :
“Dear Parent:
Your child’s teacher will teach your child about the HIV/AIDS Virus this week. The NY State Education Dept. has mandated that AIDS education be provided for ALL students grades K-12…..”
Now, if Little Miss Spice were in grade 12, I wouldn’t think twice. Hell, if she were in junior high I wouldn’t think twice. 6th grade? Wouldn’t think twice.
My thinking twice stems from the fact that my baby girl is 5 years old. Sure, HIV/AIDS education is beneficial and actually vital to our children’s education. But at what age do we proceed with such a topic? What is too soon, and is there an “appropriate” age for AIDs education?
I don’t want to give the wrong impression. I know that kids these days are having sex earlier and earlier. I know that drug use is also beginning at an earlier age, and those two ways are the likeliest to contract the virus (sharing needles, etc.). Other ways to contract it are blood transfusions, infected mother passing it to her child, tattoos and piercings (although chances are low)…. My confusion comes from the fact that none of these things pertains to my 5 year old child!
What exactly do they plan to teach kindergartners? -That’s my question, and I plan to ask today at parent/teacher conference.
Do you think there is an appropriate age for HIV/AIDS education?
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That does seem to be a bit young.
It's not a school's place to teach that kind of stuff!! But yes...IMO 5 is too young. Although I guess it depends on how they are presenting it and the maturity level of your child. My mom told me when I was 5 that HIV/AIDS was a bad virus that doctors didn't know how to cure. At that point (in 1989) there was nowhere near as much info as there is now. I remember asking my mom if AIDS was something I could catch and she told me "No, kids don't normally get it unless they are born with it." I was satisfied with that answer....I learned more about it as I got older.
People have lost their minds.
What does a 5-year-old need to know about HIV/AIDS? Very little, if anything at all.
I didn't know much, if anything, about that stuff until I was probably in junior high. Even then I didn't know about it until I was looking at a history book that covered the 1980s.
I don't feel it is the school's place, in a way....and in another I think about how many parents don't teach their kids about things like sex, drugs, and AIDS. It is a sad but true reality of life. I'm sure you can opt out of it, and teach it when your child is ready, but its not going to stop her from hearing it from someone else.
I grew up knowing that AIDS existed, that it killed people, and even how you could get it. My mom answered questions when I asked...and I watched the news with my grandma every night, so I asked a lot of questions. To me, it made life less scary. I knew that things happened, and I knew I had to be careful, and personally responsible. My mother and I had "The Talk" when I was 6. Yes, you read that right. I have known how to use a condom since I was 8. Once again, you read that right. It didn't make me go out and have sex. It made me realize that when I was ready to, I could use the proper things, and prevent myself from becoming a parent until I was ready, and prevent me from catching something "that doesn't wash off" as my mom says.
I wish more parents taught their kids these things so that schools don't have to. Education is the key to elimination.
I do think it is appropriate. I doubt they will teach them about needles or sex or anything else. I get the feeling they will teach them how they can't get the virus like from playing with a child that may have the virus (because they were born with it or whatever.) They may tell them they can get AIDS from blood (becoming blood brothers etc). It will be similar to what one of the posters said their mother told them about the virus. If they sent a letter home and you don't want your child to participate, don't let her.
too young. I'm very interested to hear what they are going to teach a 5 year old.
In out school system they went from and opt in to an opt out system. Another words, instead of receiving a permission slip that you sign allowing your child in such a class you would have to send in a note saying you would not allow your child in that class. At that point they are now making you go into the principles office and convince him that you will teach it at home, before they will ALLOW YOU, the PARENT to keep your child out of the class. For this and many other reasons, I now homeschool. I will teach my child this information when I feel they are ready to learn it and I do not have to justify to anyone or prove anything to anyone. As you can see this gets me all fired up all over again.
I think its a good idea. HIV commonly is associated with sex so people think that the teachers will play the whole "std"route. The truth is that anyone can have it or they can be born with it. Its sort of the same as teaching how the cells work in the science fair and how they misfunction and lead to other problems. As long as they dont scare the children to death, I dont see why it would be a problem. They might learn something.lol.
I don't see the problem...like many others have said, I am sure it will be "age appropriate".
And really? What age is "too young"? When I was in fifth grade, there was a girl talking about "doing it" with her boyfriend. (Lord only knows what they were really doing.) Now, as early as last year - second grade - the kids have mentioned kids in school talking about sex. Maybe [more than likely] it's just talk, but still...they are moving forward and "doing it" earlier and earlier.
I learned about it when I was about 7 - it was in our health books. It was a very non-specific sort of thing - we learned that it was a virus, that HIV develops into AIDS, and that it's dangerous and there is no cure. We may have heard the transmission types, but didn't focus on it much. I think it's a good idea...but 5? I can't imagine why. Wait a year or two, seriously.
I think its a good thing.
We had a situation come up when one of our friends died of Aids. It was really hard, especially as I was there when he died. Two of the children of friends in the group went to a school where they were treated badly because their uncle had Aids, they were 4 and 7 at the time. Kids can be cruel.
I think as long as its kept age appropriate its a good thing. They do not need an indepth class, but I think a very basic bit of info is good.
(sorry if this sounds chopped up, I did a lot of editing because I don't want to go into too much details).
When is too young to teach tolerance? When is too young to eliminate fear? HIV/AIDs is complex both as a disease and as a socio-political issue- the sooner that it is introduced in a non-threatening way, the better.
I'm sure they will teach it in simplistic terms that are age appropriate. Kids understand more than you might think.
Let's hope it's either preceded or followed with instruction on other viruses and hand-washing :)
I don't see a problem with teaching it. To me it's the same as teaching a kid about the flu while going over germs and hygiene. But as to having a whole day/week/issue devoted to teaching kids about HIV/AIDS? I don't see why not but at the same time I ask "But why?"
at about 6 i just knew that hiv/aids was a disease with the blood, but thats becasue someone that lived in my apartment had aids, and we were friends with him and his family. I wasnt told about it really till sex ed in 5th or 6th grade. At 5 its hard enough to explain death, but to explain hiv/aids. Then you would almost have to explain sex and drugs with needles, since thats the main reasons its spread. You might as well explain the new health care system that obama is trying to pass with every detail as well. Shes going to understand that as much as she would aid and hiv. Schools really need to give it a rest. Most 5 year olds dont even know their phone numbers.
I'd say it depends on how they approach the discussion. Personally, I'd rather see it as part of larger units on protecting ourselves from germs (you know, wash your hands, sneeze into your elbow, don't handle other people's blood...) and tolerance (presenting a number of ways people can be different to include ethnicity, gender, religion, handicapp, or illness).
I'd probably go up to the school and demand to see the curriculum/lesson plans before passing judgement. As for those so up against the schools, keep in mind that often, a school teaches things in response to social pressure. You may think this silly but my guess is a ton of the community does not or it probably wouldn't be done.
I have absolutely no problem with it. I trust that the school will be doing so appropriately--I suppose at least what is, in my mind, appropriately--and not giving uneccessary details. After all, what do Kindergarten students even learn about sex? Very little. Their sexual education consists mostly of Stranger Danger and inappropriate and appropriate touching, private places and what to do if someone hurts you, that sort of thing. I imagine that the discussion of AIDS/HIV will be limited to the fact that some people get bad diseases and can get very sick. But I'd like to hear what the teacher says about it. Everyone has a different opinion, and many schools have the option to elect not to have your child taught sexual education (at least here in Canada they did when I was in school) by the school. I think it is important for it to be offered in schools because, working at a school with many students who have "family problems", live in group homes, or are in poverty, often families don't teach these things to their children. SHOULD they? Asbolutely! But the fact that it doesn't happen leaves these kids confused and can have negative effects. Having a safe place at school to discuss it and learn is good, and teaches them not to be ashamed about sexuality. I think so, anyways.
I don't think many children that young can comprehend what the AIDS virus is, how its contracted, etc. I do believe it should be taught to students in school, but I think it would be kind of pointless at such a young age. Most 5 year old's don't even know what sex is, let alone a disease that very often comes from sex.
First of all, if it's mandated by the state then the school doesn't have much choice in the matter. State standards must be met by schools, and teachers have to be the ones to distribute the content... it very well may be that your school agrees with you! Second, I am an elementary teacher myself and I'd say most teachers don't get the credit they deserve. I doubt that your child's teacher plans to teach the specifics/causes of the virus. At the kindergarten level, it would most likely be taught from a tolerance/community perspective. Some kids might be sick with something called AIDS. They have the same emotions that you do. They like to play, swim, eat ice cream, and ride roller coasters. They want kids to like them just like you do. You can't get AIDS by playing with those kids... so don't be scared of them. ect etc. That being said, I have taught Kindergarten, 1st Grade, and now 3rd grade, and I have never had to teach HIV/AIDS... I don't necessarily think it's something that SHOULD be taught that young... but complaining to your child's teacher probably won't help at all. Instead you should be voicing your concerns to the state education dept.
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