Saturday, 20 February 2010
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Got Allowance?
Growing up, my mother gave me $5.00 a week to do my chores, which included vacuuming and dusting our home once a week, which happened to be a 3rd floor flat.
This meant, there were something like 30-50 stairs in addition to the two bedrooms, living room, and family room, that all had to be vacuumed. I also had to take care of the dishes (though I don't think this was all the time) as well as clean my room.
If I remember correctly, and I could be wrong (since I'm getting "up there" in age), I was 10 when this arrangement started. I never got a raise, but then again, I'm not even sure how consistent I was with my chores.
Regardless of that, I do believe it helped me learn the importance of saving. When I was 12, I started babysitting and earned an additional $5.00 for the week. So, my mother also took me to the bank and opened a "kid" account with me, so I could put money into my savings. I was so proud when it got to $200.
My daughter turns 11 next month and I want her to feel that pride of knowing she can save enough money to buy something important. I want her to learn the importance of saving, not the art of begging.
Up to this point, we have been massively failing in this regard.
I admit it. We spoil our children, not rotten, but to a degree we probably shouldn't. The other month, my husband bought our son a cheap $10 train set at the grocery store because our son was crying for it. When I went after-Christmas shopping for some work clothes, I picked up several puzzles for my son and a few outfits for my daughter. Why? Because I thought they'd like it. Yes, they were on sale, but did they *need* it? Most definitely not. We have just been in the habit of buying them stuff if it felt like it "had been awhile" since they last got something new. Clearly, we shouldn't do this and quite honestly, we can't afford it right now.
So, we started an allowance system. My daughter earns $5.00/week:- 40% ($2.25) comes to her in cash and can be spent immediately or saved as she wishes
- 40% ($2.25) goes into a "long-term" savings, which she can use to save up for larger items (that would cost over $25) and we would match it
- 10% (50 cents) gets donated to an agency of her choice: Humane Society, the little girl we sponsor in Africa, church, or wherever else she chooses.
I found this "system" online while searching for "do-able" ways to start a child's allowance. Allowance is based on child's age in half and paid either weekly or monthly, depending on family's financial situation. While I'd like to just give her $5.00 a month, I'm not sure that's realistic for us. And like I said, my goal is to help her learn about the benefits of saving money, rather than spending all the time. I also want to try to curb my husband's and my impulse buys regarding the kids. Even though "it's only" $5 or $20 or $30, those little purchases do add up!
What do you think? Is this a fair system? Did you get an allowance growing up? If you have kids, do they get an allowance? Any advice?
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We have chores in our house which are required and not rewarded. Our #1 rule we all live here we all clean it up. I do give our oldest a couple of dollars here and there if she goes out of her way watching her brother or helping me. Our kids are spoiled also they really have no need for money. My daughter has saved alot they never spend it. If they want something normally buy it for them if the behavior is good. Or if it is a big ticket item they have to wait till chirstmas or birthday. My oldest is only 8 though so we shall see how things work out when they get older. But the rule will still be in effect.
I love the idea of matching for long-term savings!
I grew up "earning" $2 a week for doing household chores (my mom called it our "week's pay"). Looking back on it, I don't like that sense of entitlement I had, even if it was only a couple of dollars. So I think we'll raise our kids knowing that certain chores are required of them with no compensation. Once they get a little older we'll offer them "bonus" chores to do to earn money.
I never got pocket money. If I needed something, my mom would give me money if she felt that I had earned it (done my homework, cleaned my room, got a good mark on a test and so on).
I like the idea that you are using for your children :)
I never received compensation for chores while growing up.
Even with my younger siblings now, they are not rewarded for cleaning up. We all live here, and we all have to contribute in some way. Since the younger ones do not work, they are assigned age-appropriate chores such as dusting, vacuuming, feeding pets, and washing their own dishes as well as doing their own laundry.
I'm one of four, and we got allowance if we did our chores. My mom made these (awesome) "chores charts", and every night before we went to bed we put a sticker next to each box. If we did not do our chores, we did not get allowance. If we broke a rule (fighting, breaking curfew, etc), we did not get allowance. My mom was strict about a lot of things, and I respected the allowance.
When we got older (high school), we could earn extra money by doing big chores: cleaning house, washing cars, doing yard work. In limited and pre-arranged conditions for specific purchase requests. I'm 22, living on my own, and financially really stable right now, so it worked for me.
you have a very good system set up & it's great that your teaching your child that saving can be fun at an early age, because the sooner she feels the joy of saving & can actually see that it grows, she'll be more likely to want to do it, plus if she starts saving now, by the time she's 13 & 14, she wont be so much of a money drainer. =]
CYJ wtf are you talkiing about, that comment made no sense whatsoever .. say abercrombie &fitch a few more fucken times why dontcha
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