Sunday, 24 January 2010

  • Go Outside to Do “Inside” Activities

    Guest Post by mamaTRUE

    Today, I went and sat on the deck outside my mom’s house and read under the big New Mexico sky. Rather than lying on the couch, I took my normally “inside” activity out.

    Especially in the wintertime, when it’s so easy for me to get in the habit of staying in the house and out of the cold, I forget how good being outside is for my outlook and mental health. It is definitely an act of self care.

    If it’s chilly or overcast, I really need to go on a walk or do some other physical activity to keep myself warm, but on those reprieve from winter days, even though I don’t have weeding or watering to do in my garden, it is still necessary for me to be under the sky and in nature for a decent chunk of time.

    If I just tell myself I should go outside because it will make me feel better, I am apt to stay out there five minutes or less. They may be mindful minutes in which I really notice what’s blooming or how the dead winter plants create the bones of the garden even in the middle of January. Maybe I’ll take the time to listen to birds and squirrels twittering or gaze at the reach of tree branches shadowing the yard. The more likely scenario is that I feel impatient while I wait for the chore of being outside to be over.

    So I’ve experimented with ways to be outside for a longer period so I can get the full benefits of sunlight. I’m just not a sit down and meditate or otherwise be still and peaceful kind of person, though I aspire to it. Instead  of sitting outside and beating myself up for not liking it more, here are some activities that have allowed me to enjoy my time outside and spend at least 20 – 30 minutes in sunlight instead of artificial light.

    • Check email, submit poems, or write a blog post on my laptop at a table in our backyard.
    • Crochet outside while Cavanaugh plays in the sandbox or runs around.
    • Take the phone out into the yard and walk around while I talk.
    • Read a book at a table, in the hammock, or in one of the Adirondack chairs.
    • Drink a latte and examine one of my gardens, maybe even making a task list for once it’s gardening weather again.

    Do you get stuck inside too? Have you found ways of getting yourself outside your four walls and under a big sky?

Comments (5)

  • TheCaffeinatedKnitter@xanga

    Yes! Winter time is the worst, because if I want to go outside, the kids have to come with me.  So that involves dressing them appropriately for outside.  But it's worth it, because then I can get a good 30-45 minutes of knitting in.

  • TheLuckiestWomanEver@xanga

    I love being outside! Even in the winter, there's nothing like fresh air to really brighten your attitude and clear the cobwebs from your brain.

  • filtered_sunlight

    It's taken me a while to remember just how much I really do enjoy being outside...it really is too easy to get trapped inside for days on end!! Next weekend, we're taking the time to expand one of our flowerbeds around the side of the house for a vegetable garden. I know that it will get me out there more often and the 9 year old has already exclaimed, "It'll be like Farmville!! COOL!!" So I'm hoping that it will get them outside as well!

  • KittySolntsova@xanga

    I guess having been born in a city with bad air pollution, it's ingrained in me that if I can stay indoors and do something, I will stay inside my four walls.  It was probably only when my family and I moved to a slightly less polluted country that my father started to regularly kick me out of the house so I would get some sunshine and outside air in me.  I'm now living by myself in a city that isn't very polluted but sometimes can get hazy from bushfires or the occasional sandstorm.  Since my asthma has worsened in recent years, I don't go outside to do indoor things very often.

  • michcoy@xanga

    I love going outside and get SAD in the winter.  I have tried just going out like you use to to get my sun in but was always counting down the mins until I could go in and get warm!  I like your idea of taking inside activities out, I will def. try that!

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    • About Me: Sonya S. Feher is stay-at-home-mama to Cavanaugh True. She found out she was an attachment parent when she and Cavanaugh were invited to a playgroup full of AP families. Loath to admit she had no idea what AP was, she went home and Googled it. Sure enough, her new friends were right. Since then, she has become a co-leader of the South Austin chapter of Attachment Parenting International, a contributing editor for API Speaks, and a columnist for The Attached Family. She blogs about parenting at http://mamatrue.com and writing at http://sonyafeher.com. You can contact her at mamatrue (at) sonyafeher (dot) com.
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