Wednesday, 11 November 2009

  • Guns in Schools - God Bless America

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    I was shocked to see the headline that made its way to my inbox this morning "Gunman holds school principal hostage in NY". After a week of horror with the Fort Hood shootings followed the very next day by the shootings in Orlando, I was very upset to read this news. I have often wondered how I would feel when I have to pack my son off to public school next year. And the one thing I have not been able to get over is the possibility that someone might get there with a gun in hand.

    Earlier this year I watched the news incredulously as they showed a story about a 6 yr old first grader who had brought a loaded gun to school. The little boy had taken the gun from his father's vehicle. The father was arrested and the kid was expelled from school. Later the kid's punishment was reduced to a suspension and he was accepted back in school after a week's suspension. Thankfully no one was hurt!

    However, this is not the case in most scenarios. I was looking up the statistics and stumbled across the Brady Campaign. Here is a list of school shootings in the recent past. Be it 15 and 16 yr old teenagers who just shot out in the parking lot, random drive by shootings, or younger kids who simply wanted to show off a gun to a friend. The very fact that these episodes happen show us that guns are easily available and accessible to children.

    And why not? 31 states have the legal right to carry guns. Anyone in the United States over 18 and without a criminal record can own a gun!

    Meanwhile, the gunman in NY was apprehended and found to be a 40 yr old former student of the school. No one was injured.

    Do you ever worry about gun control and guns in your child's school? Please share your thoughts on gun control and how you think we can lead a safer life.

Comments (78)

  • filtered_sunlight

    Yes...it's a factor in why we plan on homeschooling Megan; we don't own guns and, in the very unlikely event that we choose to obtain one later, would keep it locked up. But that's not the case with many people out there. The techs at the car dealership that I worked at oftened joked that they could retire early if they had a dollar for everytime the adjusted a seat and found a gun. Some people take gun ownership entirely too lightly and fail to use common sense. What in the world does the average person need a gun under their carseat for? Honestly. If someone's trying to car jack you, get the hell out of the car and file it with your insurance company, don't see who pull the trigger first! In homes, a barking dog that people know is there is going to deter them more than a gun that may or may not be there. There are so many alternatives to owning a gun which do not endanger our children or ourselves that, frankly, I don't get the obcession that America seems to have with guns.

  • MistressAislin@xanga

    I wish I had a gun, then I'd be in control.  Look, I understand what you're saying... but the fact of the matter remains, if you outlaw guns, only the outlaws have guns.  Good guys will turn in their guns *Maybe they would, it's protected in the second amendment, and with good reason!!  The British didn't want us to have them, but they could... could you imagine the massacre?*  bad guys will always be bad guys, and will not willingly hand over their guns to abide by the law. We also cannot reasonably search every nook and cranny of every home looking for a gun, it is unreasonable. 


    Truthfully guns should come with common sense - a lock, and a locking safe.  Your kids don't need access to your guns... but if ever this country were invaded *Heaven forbid* I want that amendment in place, and I guarantee no one will take my home. 


    Do I worry about a gun falling into the wrong hands and ending up in a school with my child?  Absolutely, it's a horrifying thought, and I couldn't handle losing one of my babies.  I don't think prohibiting guns is the answer though.  Perhaps tight school security would help?  I don't know.  I think though that a few minutes going through a metal detector is worth it if it finds a gun early. 


    Then of course I've heard stories about teachers being permitted to carry on premises... I don't know how I feel about that.  Part of me thinks okay they could take out a gunman, but the other part says what if the gunman is a student/child?  Under what conditions is a gun on school grounds safe?  Would it have to be locked?  Kept in a small safe beneath the teacher's desk?  If so, would it still be timely to go for it anyways?  What about the psychological requirements?  I don't trust just any teacher to carry a gun.  Why?  Look at the teacher/student sexual cases going up like mad. 

  • beepeing@xanga

    Gun is not allowed to hold, except the policemen. Too dangerous !

  • CheekyTales

    @filtered_sunlight - Wel said.. where I grew up that was the case. Guns needed special license and it was difficult to obtain, barking dogs kept intruders at bay!


    @MistressAislin@xanga - I understand your point.. however it is so easy to obtain a gun in America, and that scares me! Owning a gun needs to be a privilege not a right, and there needs to be a lot more scrutiny and checks in place! Otherwise it will keep getting into wrong hands, and hands of our little children!!


    @beepeing@xanga - well said!

  • DirtyAndShaken@xanga

    Gun control is a slippery slope in this country.  My husband and I are avid 2nd Amendment supporters and gun owners.  Gun control in America has translated into taking the guns away from those responsible enough to own them, which just leaves them in the hands of those who shouldn't have them.  Sure, there are cases where guns have been legally given to criminals or someone who shouldn't have one because an employee was either lazy or paid off.  But making laws that further restrict gun ownership is NOT going to keep guns out of the hands of criminals.

    Statistically speaking (I will find the numbers to back this up fully if needed), nearly all crimes in America committed with the use of a gun are done so by those not even legally eligible to own a gun, or who obtained one illegally.

    Having extreme laws that severely limit gun owner's rights will not stop children from showing up in schools with a gun.  It won't stop a madman from going crazy and open firing in a crowded shopping mall or taking a hostage.  It won't stop terrorists from shooting 12 people on a military post.

    But it will keep people like my husband from having the right to carry and protect himself, his family and strangers in such a situation.  If you're in a crowded mall and someone does decide to open fire, you'd better hope a regular Joe is carrying and has a chance to stop the gunman.

    Parenting is the problem in the OP's situation.  Responsible gun owners don't leave guns lying around or within access of anyone but themselves.  We have a 3 month old son.  We've always had a gun safe in our garage that is impossible for someone to break into or move (in case of burglary) where most of our items are stored.  Before he was even born, we installed a secured door with a keypad lock on our closet door where we keep our shotgun for home protection.  We didn't even wait until he was born to secure our items.

    Making stricter laws won't stop irresponsible parents from leaving their guns in places kids will find them.  Just as stricter laws don't keep parents from leaving their kids in a hot car while they go into the grocery store, or keep them from owning exotic pets that eventually can/will turn on a small child.  These laws will only increase the punishment (and rightfully so) but won't stop these things from happening.  Period.  It only punishes responsible gun owners while keeping the guns in the hands of those who will use them against you.  You will never, ever, ever be able to keep guns out of the hands of those who will use them maliciously.  The black market is bigger than the law and the government will ever be.

  • bubbelcat

    It is a factor in why we homeschool but not in the top 5 reasons.  A couple of years ago a teacher found a loaded gun in the backpack of special needs Kindergarten student.  The dumb ass father had a concealed carry permit and had taken the gun to his son's soccer game in that backpack over the weekend.  (Why he would need a gun at a child's soccer game I have NO idea!)  The dad forgot it was in there and sent his son off to school with it.  Thank God an adult found it and not a child.

    When I was teaching we went into lockdown once because there was someone wandering around campus with a gun in his pants.  It wasn't a student and we are pretty sure the guy was some drunk who wandered onto campus from the neighborhood but still. 

    @DirtyAndShaken@xanga - I agree with you.  We are also gun owners and strong supporters of the 2nd ammendment.  Unfortunately you cannot legislate stupidity and irresponsibility out of people. 

  • DirtyAndShaken@xanga

    @bubbelcat - You are so right about that.  We also plan to homeschool and like you, safety is a concern, but not in the top reasons why we are choosing homeschool. 

    It makes me so mad to hear stories like that because it gives responsible gun owners a bad name.  Putting your gun in your son's backpack?  Stupid.  I can understand carrying to a soccer game if it's within the limits of the law, but If my husband or I carry, it's ONLY on our person, never would we stash it anywhere else.  If we go somewhere that requires us to not carry inside, we have a gun safe mounted under the front seat of both our vehicles that cannot be manipulated or broken into.

  • bubbelcat

    @DirtyAndShaken@xanga - It's interesting because in my experience I've found that the people who are the most fearful of guns are the ones who know the least about them.  When we lived in AZ it was not all uncommon to see people open carrying pretty much everywhere but bars, banks and the airport (oh and the DMV for obvious reasons  ).  People were really comfortable with it and criminals knew that if you held up a restaurant your hiney was likely to get shot.  Here on the east coast if you open carry people become completely unhinged.  The fact is like it or not our country is flooded with guns.  If you really want to protect yourself and your family learn about guns, learn about gun safety and learn how to shoot one even if you NEVER intend to own one.  And for heaven's sake teach, teach, teach your children what to do if they ever find a gun.

  • tsh44@xanga

    I think that if you check the stats you will find that the odds of serious injury or death to a child are much greater at home than at school. I mean more children are dying at home than they are at school seems like keepe them home would logically therefore result in an increase in their risk of injury/death not alleviate it. By the way we homeschool all of our children but I have no illusions that by doing this they are physically safer than in a public school.

  • HSmomto4@xanga

    guns don't kill people, people kill people.  If you take guns away they will simply find another tool to do the job. 

  • FredTownWard@xanga

    The problem with banning law abiding citizens, like teachers and principles, from legally carrying their guns onto school property is that you GUARANTEE that any whack job who wishes to hurt children will have a free hand, to kill as many kids as possible, until the police finally break in on him.


    They might be crazy, but if you'll notice, they are never so crazy as to pick a place where guns are permitted to stage their rampages.  They WANT to be the only person with a gun on the premises in order to have their "fun".


    And they count on illogical gun banners like you to keep their opportunities for future fun available.

  • CheekyTales

    @HSmomto4@xanga - Very well said!!


    @tsh44@xanga - I saw that statistic too.. isnt that really sad?


    @ All - I uderstand all your sentiments about the 2nd ammendment. But I will say again that carrying a gun is a privilege, and there should be stricter laws to obtain a gun license. I am not saying ban guns, however I am saying dont hand ti anyone or everyone who comes knocking!


    @FredTownWard@xanga - Security in schools is the answer. Unfortunately, whether the principals and teachers carry guns or not, rampages are bound to happen! And I would rather not start a gun warfare if there was a way to prevent it!

  • Indygirl18@xanga

    Gotta love America. ANy idiot can have a gun....and does.  These things will continue to happen unfortunately. I wish we had better gun control in this country. Compare our crime rates with countries that do!!

  • filtered_sunlight

    @CheekyTales - Exactly. When I left my first husband, I was in a position where I owned a gun...with a license and a concealed permit because I took it with me to and from work; it was a rather serious situation. I'd never suggest banning them either.


    But in my present situation, I don't see the point in owning one. It would need to be so secured that there'd be virtually no hope of me getting to it in time unless the potential intruder sent me a memo on when he planned on entering my home and could I please put the dog out? I don't need a Glock in the grocery store or while shoe shopping...and I fail to see who does. I'd rather not be caught in the crossfire of some well-intentioned person with adrenaline-fueled-bad-aim. *Trained police officers* can stand 5 feet away from a perp and miss because of the "excitement".


    @tsh44@xanga - True enough, though as had been said before; it's not a main reason. I wonder what goes in some homes though that that is the case. Are you speaking in general or only where firearms are concerned?

  • tsh44@xanga

    @filtered_sunlight - I'm speaking of all types of injuries to children. The most dangerous place for children right now is at their own home. Although I imagine more of them get shot at home than they do in public school too. I know I certainly hear a lot more about accidental shootings in homes than I ever have about crazy gunmen strolling into schools.

  • FredTownWard@xanga

    @CheekyTales wrote "But I will say again that carrying a gun is a privilege, and there should be stricter laws to obtain a gun license. I am not saying ban guns, however I am saying dont hand ti anyone or everyone who comes knocking!"


    Thus proving how poorly informed on the subject CheekyTales is because this is the basic premise of ALL concealed carry legislation passed or proposed.  Background checks, evidence of training, and of course waiting periods are required BY DEFINITION.  Thus, this objection has already been met.


    @CheekyTales wrote "Security in schools is the answer. Unfortunately, whether the principals and teachers carry guns or not, rampages are bound to happen! And I would rather not start a gun warfare if there was a way to prevent it!"


    Riiiight, and how would the security guards who would provide said security actually provide it?  By flashing their badges?  Noooo, by pointing and if necessary firing their guns.


    The dirty little secret is that we can never afford enough armed guards or police to protect everything and everyone, and people wth evil intent will simply choose to attack some place left unguarded.  However, concealed carry by its very existence destroys this sort of calculation (unless concealed carry is trumped by PUBLICLY ANNOUNCED "no gun" policies, as at many schools and large corporations) because, unlike the case with police or uniformed security guards, there is no way for the bad guy to "case the joint" and thus be certain he will be the only one armed that day.


    Ironic, isn't it?  Only by allowing the POSSIBILITY that teachers or principles MIGHT be armed can we cause the would-be mass killer to pause and reconsider because having an unexpected gun pulled on him as he is just getting started would ruin his whole day!

  • gwacemom

    @filtered_sunlight - Found it. I missed it the first time.


    I won't lie, guns scare me for many reasons and I do know a little something about them. I grew up in Texas and I think it was some kind of law that you had to own at least one gun during your lifetime. (tongue firmly placed in cheek for those that miss sarcasm on the internet).


    My first husband owned them and the first purchase I made after finding out I was pregnant was a locked gun cabinet. In all honesty, much like filtered_sunlight stated; the gun would do me no good unless the person robbing my home was kind enough to send me a memo prior to robbing the place seeing that the gun was locked in the case and the ammo locked in an entirely different location.


    In my life now, guns are not needed nor will I allow them in my home.

  • filtered_sunlight

    @tsh44@xanga - 'All' injuries gets into a gray area...they're much more likely to jump on a trampoline at home, play "batman" off the back of the sofa, etc. at home than at school. They're also home more than anywhere else, no matter whether or not they attend public school.

  • filtered_sunlight

    @gwacemom - Yes, grandma, it works better when you put your spectacles on... (Sweet jesus woman, you must be sick...you just handed me that one!!)

  • tsh44@xanga

    @filtered_sunlight - That is my point exactly. We get so terrified of the crazy gunmen that we sometimes forget every other danger. A child who dies because they break their neck on a trampoline, or drown in their parents pool or find daddys gun and play with it is just as dead as the one who gets shot at school by some lunatic. Also since a good deal of their time at home is spent sleeping I would say that kids in public school probably spend more actual waking hours there, in church or in extra curriculars then they do at home. Even if you eliminate all accidents and only concentrate on shootings you will most likely discover that they are more likely to get shot anywhere but at school. Even if you eliminate accidental shootings and only use stats for deliberate shootings I think you will still find that more children die from shootings outside of school than in school.

  • filtered_sunlight

    @FredTownWard@xanga - Are you serious? Wasn't there just a shooting on a military base where guns are not only permitted, but standard issue? That didn't stop what happened there. And most of the school shootings are the hands of students...not some random psych ward escapee. Yay for passion...but...really??

  • FredTownWard@xanga

    @filtered_sunlight - Are you serious?  Allowing NON-killers to carry guns does not guarantee no shootings; it merely guarantess that any attempted shootings will come to an end sooner rather than later, as was the case on the military base, where a wounded female officer drew her weapon and brought the killer down with 4 quick shots.  The problem THERE was political correctness: how a moslem fanatic with known connections to other moslem fanatics, including the 9-11 attackers, was allowed to continue to carry a gun is beyond me!


    And you are (deliberately?) missing the point about these mass killings.  Yes, the killers usually have SOME connection with the place they attack, but again, they attack with the knowledge that they are going into a "gun free zone".  If they couldn't count on that, they probably wouldn't do it.


    How many disgruntled donut shop employees have you seen trying to shoot up what are often police hangouts, HMMM?

  • filtered_sunlight

    @tsh44@xanga - Pointing out Summer vacation and weekends gets to be pointless... My point in taking safety into account with homeschooling is that I can control the risks in my home; we don't own a gun, a trampoline or a pool...and if we did? They'd be secured. I know that because I would secure them. I know my daughter is not going to be shot in my home while we continue to hear more and more about guns being in schools.

  • filtered_sunlight

    @FredTownWard@xanga - If they were going to be deterred, period, I think the fact that it's *illegal* and practically gauranteed to end in the loss of their life one way or the other would be enough to stop them.


    How many police do you see in donut shops?? How many Wal-Mart employees do you hear of shooting up the place? (And for their wages, it'd be justified!) Or Disney? Disney has a no-firearms policy for their employees, flat-out...they're not even allowed to keep them in their vehicles. You know what Disney has though? Security and metal dectors! Mind boogling...

  • FredTownWard@xanga

    @filtered_sunlight wrote "If they were going to be deterred, period, I think the fact that it's *illegal* and practically gauranteed to end in the loss of their life one way or the other would be enough to stop them."


    That just shows that you are NOT thinking.  These particular sorts of mass killers usually go in INTENDING to die at the end, as most of them in fact end up doing.  What would take the fun out of it for them, what therefore might deter them, is the thought they could get shot BEFORE they get their killing done.  And if deterrence fails, at least they get stopped quicker with less lives lost.


    @filtered_sunlight wrote "How many Wal-Mart employees do you hear of shooting up the place? (And for their wages, it'd be justified!) Or Disney? Disney has a no-firearms policy for their employees, flat-out...they're not even allowed to keep them in their vehicles. You know what Disney has though? Security and metal dectors! Mind boogling..."


    How many Wal-Marts have security and metal detectors?  On the other hand what Wal-Mart does NOT have is a publicly announced "no gun" policy in concealed carry jurisdictions.  "Mind boogling" (sic), indeed.


    Disney on the other hand is a very newsworthy, publicly announced "gun free zone" with LOTS of potential targets.


    Sooner or later some nut (or terrorist for that matter) is going to notice....

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