Part 1 of 3 - Before the baby arrivesPart 2 of 3 - While mom is in the hospitalAFTER YOU COME HOME...
- Do let your child hold the new baby. You can help him sit in a chair or couch so that the baby will be safe.
- Let your older child help take care of the new baby. He can bring the diapers, put on lotion, and choose the outfit for the baby to wear.
- When both children need you at the same time, choose to take care of the older child first. She needs to know that you are still there to take care of her. Your baby can wait for a few minutes to eat.
- Talk to your baby about how wonderful the big brother or big sister is. "Your big brother can ride a tricycle. He will teach you how when you are older."
- Interpret the baby's behavior in a positive light for the older child. "See how your baby enjoys holding your hand. She likes you."
- Let your child hear you using emotion words. "I am disappointed I can't take you to the park right now."
- Take pictures of each of your children - separately - and together.
- Arrange your day so you can spend some time just with your older child. Give him extra hugs and kisses.
For additional information, see
Welcoming Your Second Baby by Vicky Lansky.
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