Friday, 17 April 2009
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Guidelines and Resources for Determining Kids’ Allowances
Teaching kids about the value of money is one of the greatest lessons parents can impart. With a healthy attitude towards money, kids will enter adulthood with the knowledge of smart money management, sensible spending parameters and the importance of saving.
There are reports that Malia and Sasha Obama get $1 each for their weekly allowance. Maybe it’s time for the President to loosen the purse strings a little bit! $1 seems a bit meager for kids that age, but it got me wondering about allowances in general and what the guidelines are for allocation. Editors at Kiplinger Magazine advise parents to start at an appropriate age, which they consider to be about 6 or 7 years of age. It is during those years when children start learning about money in school and can grasp the value of a dollar. As for an amount, they recommend a weekly allowance equal to half a child’s age, for example, a 6-year old would get $3 each week, but you can set the amount to whatever you see fit.Although kids may not entirely grasp the concept of money until that age, the education process can certainly start from an earlier age. My four year old son has shown an interest in money, coins in particular, and even offers his services around the house and in the yard in the hope of earning an extra quarter or two. We haven’t yet formally rolled out a weekly allowance for him, but he is grasping the basics of earning money and spending it on things he values. We recently took him to the Museum of Science and prior to the outing, he took money out of his piggy bank to help pay for a portion of a toy he anticipated getting. Witnessing him trudge up to the cashier, coins clenched in his hand, pay for the item and leave the story knowing that he contributed his own money to the purchase, was priceless.So, it is really up to parents to determine the specifics behind when and how much, but here are some other guidelines Kiplinger recommend parents follow when it comes to allowances:· Every allowance should include some money the child can spend however he or she wants. If every cent is earmarked for lunches, bus fares and the like, the child gets no experience in choosing among spending alternatives.· Don't come to the rescue every time your youngster runs out of money. The allowance should be realistic and determined by mutual agreement. If the child consistently spends fast and needs more, either the allowance is too small or spending habits are sloppy. Find the cause and act accordingly.· Don't tie the basic allowance to chores. Some families are incredibly well organized. But many parents have a tough time keeping track of multiple chores over the course of a week. Even with online chore-tracking sites, the system can collapse under its own weight.· Instead of attaching the basic allowance to everyday household jobs, tie it to "financial chores." Make kids responsible for some of their own expenses: collectibles, movie tickets, after-school snacks. To link pay with work, pay for "extra" jobs as soon as your kids complete them. That's easier to monitor than a week's worth of chores.· Keep it simple. When children are younger, consider keeping track of their money with a simple checkbook system. Each month record their allowance (plus gift money or other income) in a checkbook. When they want money, have them write you a check and subtract it from their balance.Here are some books that can help parents learn more about raising financially-savvy kids:Kids are eager to learn about money management and develop the tools necessary to be a financially independent adult. By having an initial understanding of money, each day with mom and dad at the grocery store, the bank, the post office, etc. can be a learning experience. And if kids have a cool money receptacle for stashing their cash, like this fun piggy bank, money jar or coin sorter, they’ll be even more excited to start earning their allowance.
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Comments (11)
It's fun to let young kids loose in Target or something with a couple bucks. My son once had $3, and one of the 3 things he bought was a box of Mac and Cheese. Hilarious.
We don't give one. They live here and we expect them to help out as much as possible. Each child has daily and weekly chores that are to be done just as their father and I do. We don't get paid for taking care of our home so why should they?
Now as far as learning to take care of money, we do spend a lot of time on that! The littlest 3 earn money by selling eggs and they also have to help buy the feed for the chickens. They have to save some of it and then the rest they get to do whatever they want with. My oldest makes money doing odd jobs for others and she pretty much buys all her "fun" stuff. My kids are great at saving money. It is hard to get them to spend it. We want each of our kids to understand that debt is BAD and that if they want something they need to save for it and never use credit.
@HSmomto4@xanga - I agree with your comment. Our children do not get one either
these are great guidelines. i'll pass on the info!
thanks for the info. this is a good source.
Why doesn't Obama teach the banks, corporations and American people how to handle 1$!!! Instead he thinks giving them free money is a good idea.
My oldest son is 11 and now get $30/month. Each year since he was seven we have increased the amount. With that increase comes a new item that he is responsible for buying. He is required to save $10/month and he must have enough money to buy shoes, socks, and underwear when he needs them. Otherwise he can spend the money how he likes. Since he must buy his own shoes he has learned to look for the best deal and is never looking for the newest most popular shoe. We give him an allowance but our ultimate goal is to teach him how to save and budget his money. So many people were not taught and really struggle with it. We hope that by teaching him now we can help him not struggle so much as an adult.
My son is 6 and he has chores he is paid for and chores he is not paid for. Making his bed, picking up his room and toys, taking care of his pet, he does not get paid for. Right now he gets paid to clean each bathroom sink and empty wastepaper baskets throughout the house. He only get a dollar which is broken down into envelopes...25 cents to church offering, .25 cents to savings and .50 cents to spend. We have only been doing this for a couple of months but it is working well. As he gets older we will add chores and/or change them and he will get more allowance.
My sister and I never received an allowance... My parents' reasoning was that they've always done their best to provide us with the things we've needed or wanted, and that should be enough to satisfy us. Would've been nice, considering all of the housework I've done since I was little, but now that I'm older, I see their point.
Dave Ramsey also has some excellent resources for teaching children how to handle money. He advocates staying out of debt, paying with cash, giving to others and saving for the future. My husband and I are teaching our daughter that there are three basic things to do with money - saving (which is wise), giving (which is kind) and spending (which is fun), and a budget is incomplete without all of those things. It's a good thing we have a dozen and a half years to teach it!
Loved this. I think the checkbook idea is awesome, and would be a great way to keep track... especially with all these extra checkbooks I'll never use for anything else. :P