Wednesday, 25 March 2009

• Children 2 Months Old to 6 Years Old Abused in Daycare

   by Mama Ladybug 

  

  Yesterday while reading the Sunday paper, I came across the worst story I've ever read. I was so disgusted to learn about a couple who sexually abused children from ages 2 months old to 6 years old.
  
  HOLD ON: 2 MONTHS OLD?
  
  Sadly, you guys read the last part correctly.
  
  The couple started a daycare center out of their Indiana home, and cared for the children whom they videotaped while performing sex acts. One of those children was their own daughter.
  
  Today, the 2 being charged with child molestation and exploitation are being held in jail on $100,000 bond. (Way too small of an amount for my liking)
  
  Now I am one who does not believe in the death penalty. But being a mother and realizing what this couple has done to innocent children, and even an infant is beyond extreme. I cannot even fathom what their parents must be going through today- let alone what these children will live with through the years. Situations like these are what make me feel that they need to be punished more than a few years in a cell.
  
  I know we as parents can never prevent these things 100% but we can start somewhere:
  
  Let your children feel comfortable talking to you-about anything. Don't ever shoo them when they come to you, even if it is something small they'd like to talk about. Listen up. This will let them know their problems and concerns are important to you regardless of how big or small.
  
  Talk to your children about sex, and body parts. I know some may be "too young" to learn about certain things but after reading this article, they are obviously never too young for sickos to prey upon. So talk to your children. Tell them what is not OK. I know some parents who assume that children know whats not appropriate, but enforce it. Research ways to speak to different ages in children and start talkin'.
  
  Ask your kids about their day, every day. Prevent going days without having long conversations. If something is going on with our children, we could be not seeing it right away. I understand parents are busy. But talk anytime, on the way to school, during cooking, or winding down at bedtime.
  
  Know who you leave your children with...We an never be too sure about this one. I realize that horrible things can happen anywhere but knowing our children's surroundings may help prevent certain things. If you must leave the kids at daycare, try a place with video cameras. I know they will be more costly, but our children are our most prized possessions. Would you leave a million dollars with just anyone? Why leave your kids with just anyone? If you have in-home daycare, be extra aware. Ask your children questions. Observe their behavior. Pick them up early sometimes to see whats going on when they aren't expecting you yet.
  
  If you see something, say something. If you start to notice different behavior with your child, unusual bruising, or a change in their willingfulness to talk to you, ask a doctor. Don't be afraid to cause problems with the caregivers or daycare centers. Your children are most important and protecting them is your responsibility.

   

  Here are a few warning signs for sexual abused children:

  • Sleep problems or nightmares
  • Withdrawl from family and friends
  • Refusal to go to school or daycare
  • Fear of something wrong with them in the genital area
  • Unusual aggressiveness
  • Eating disorders (over or under eating)

  These are just a few of the many signs parents see to recognize a potential problem with children. If you see any of the signs, talk to children first. Then if needed, contact the authorities right away, do NOT wait! These stories happen way too often. 
  
  What do you think parents, teachers, and authorities can do in addition to what they already do?

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