Being a mommy of 2, I have to say my life has changed drastically since giving birth. I am no longer that young, outgoing, care free young woman I once was. How have I changed?
Let's take a closer look into my life:
My Idea of FunBefore Kids: My idea of fun was a night out on the town. Drinks, music, and friends. No care in the world... The wind in my hair. It didn't matter if I was at a house party, or a night club, I was always having a great time! Ahhh the freedom smelled terrific.
After kids: My idea of fun has changed drastically. Not only do I not go out to nightclubs, but I don't
want to. Huh, did I just say that? The one time "Party Girl"? It's true. Today, I'd rather be with my husband and daughters. Fun to me is a day at the park, bowling with family, or spending the day with Elmo at Sesame Place. My idea of fun is seeing my kids laugh.
My Outlook on Life Before Kids: When I was a single girl, my outlook on life was almost non-existent at times. I lived in the moment, and
for the moment. At times I hated the world, and I didn't care to say so.
After Kids: Now that I have children, I am thankful. I feel more of a "reason" for being here. I remember my past, love my present, and look forward to the future.
My AppearanceBefore Kids: Meant everything to me. I didn't go outside unless my hair was done. Spent hours in front of the mirror making sure I looked OK. I changed more than 3 times sometimes because the 1st and 2nd outfits weren't the ones. I carried lip gloss and foundation in my purse because I needed those like Peanut Butter needs Jelly.
After Kids: Although I still try to make it a point to be presentable at all times, I don't go overboard like I used to. Plus, with 2 girls now, I don't have the time. My hair has been needing a cut for a month now, and I'm pretty sure I've gained 10 lbs due to late-night chocolate and chinese food binges.
My PatienceBefore Kids: Hell, I didn't have enough patience to stand in line at Rite Aid without becoming agitated. I don't think I knew what "patience" even was back then. And if I did, I was about to be in for a crazy, rude awakening.
After Kids: Patience now is an everyday part of my life. I have to be patient when my oldest argues that the number 1 is spelled "W-O-N", when my youngest throws a tantrum after realizing that we are out of gummies, and also when my husband stares blankly at his credit card statement, asking me how I spent $600 at Target. Patience has become a necessity for family life.
Parents, what are some of the things that have changed for you since having kids?
by Mama Ladybug 
Comments (5)
^_^nice post
lol - the $600 at target part made me laugh. Sometimes I wonder the same thing, but things add up! And I *still* struggle with patience. I have a 16-month-old and a 4-month-old at home and patience is not my strong suit.
It is true, having a child changes your perspective on life and for that matter your whole lifestyle changes.
I think the biggest change, is I use to work all the time, nothing else. Now I spend all my time with my child.
I loved reading this post. People without children don't usually understand how it changes your life and not only that but changes you as a person.
The was I looked at the world changed after I had children!
Isn't it wonderful? Being a parent really changes your outlook on things. It makes me more responsible, more patient, more mature, more understanding,... I see things in a whole new light. And I am always learning new things along with them.